Welcome to one of the most challenging phases of parenting – adolescence.

In all likelihood, your young teen is experiencing significant emotional, psychological and physical changes. And, while your preteen needs you more than ever to help them through this challenging time, they are also seeking independence and turning to peers.

While it may seem easier to let your preteen shake you loose, hang on. They really do need you.

Right now, your preteen is forming relationships that set the stage for future relationships. Given that 1 in 5 high schoolers experience dating violence, you’ll want to be sure you do your part to help your child understand what a healthy relationship feels like and looks like now.

Start Strong is here to help you through this challenging process. Throughout this website, you’ll find information and tools to help you talk to your kids about healthy relationships.

Talking about Healthy Relationships with your Young Teen

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	Family Dinners Family dinners are a great opportunity to check in with your preteens. Table time offers an opportunity to talk to kids about responsible choices, even if they’re not dating yet. Find recipes to start the conversation. › more
	Status Update Isn’t it time your preteen updated his/her status with you? Talk with your kids about peer pressure online and off, even if they’re not in a relationship yet. As a parent, you can help shape respectful relationships through conversations that are actually spoken, not texted. › more
	Be a Good Friend As your child transitions from elementary school to middle or junior high school, friendships gain importance and peer groups begin to form, sometimes taking priority over family relationships. Help your child to be a good friend. › more
	Get Help If you need support there are people and resources available to help. › more