If you suspect abuse, you are the most important resource and advisor for your child. If you need support there are people and resources available to help. Remind your young teen that he or she deserves a violence free relationship and that abuse is NEVER appropriate and NEVER their fault.

If you think your son or daughter may be controlling, abusive, or violent with his or her partner, tell your child that abuse and violence are NOT acceptable and that violence will not solve problems. Let him or her know when you truly care for someone you don’t hurt them or try to control them. Abuse is a choice and there are resources and counselors that can help him or her understand the consequences, choose alternatives to violence, and stop the abuse.

If your young teen isn’t ready to openly communicate with you about his or her relationship, let him or her know there are confidential resources and trained individuals available to answer questions and help avoid unhealthy relationships. Pass on the information below, but let your teen know you are always available to talk.

GET HELP: If at any time you feel that you or your teen are in immediate danger, call 911.

National Helplines

Online Resources